Christian Codependency: Helping Those That Won't Help Themselves

There are many facets to Christian codependency. One of them is that there are some human beings who refuse to aid themselves. Martyrs suffer since they get a payoff. They feed an image that says, "I don't deserve anything bigger, so I'll continue to endure this." Along with the martyr stroking his or her self-esteem for being so willing to suffer, comes the abrogation of responsibility, which says, "I don't have any choice." Other human beings aren't willing to constitute an effort to aid themselves outside of laziness and irresponsibility. So how do you aid those who won't aid themselves? More information: read

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