Why People Sabotage Their Love Relationships By Using Passive Aggressive Behaviors

When a husband disconnects from his spouse by doing passive aggressive behaviors, he is using an ancient defense against what he imagines is a painful intrusion or control attempt by her. The truth is that he carries a primitive imitation of insecure attachment which forces him to mistrust the bonds with other human beings and end up refusing to engage with others. This causes the "lonely marriage" paradox: why marry if you don't desire to share yourself with others? In the end, he wishes he could, however dread of abandonment gets the best of him and then he has to withdraw from deeply connecting in silence and

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